On Friday 13th January, I was asked to go onto Radio 4’s PM programme to counter argue with Prof. Warwick and her statement regarding so called “foetus parties” an apparently derogatory term we as a company had never heard of before. I declined for 2 reasons.
Firstly, Babybond does not provide “foetus parties” and secondly, I really didn’t want to give Prof. Warwick’s article any more credence.
On reading the article my first feeling was how very disappointing. Another example of how someone who reaches the top of their career seems to lose touch with reality. I am not really sure what the crux of Prof. Warwick’s statement is since she brings in such diverse comments. In my opinion, it sounds like a middle-aged woman who hasn’t quite got to grips with the progressing world of technology.
I stress that I am not addressing the “party element” here. It may be integral with the baby showers in the USA, but I am not aware that this has broken through into the UK yet. Nor are we defending the illegal, non CQC registered ultrasound practices in the UK who use social buying sites to promote their services.
I will though defend our use of 4D ultrasound imaging and the bonding scan principles as defined by us.
So, to address some of Prof. Warwicks’ points:
1) “However, I think the worrying trend towards the commercialisation of pregnancy and trend in ‘foetus parties’ can add to the burden and can increase the expectation for mothers which midwives then have to deal with”.
This is probably at the heart of it – the fear factor of creating more work for Midwives. This has always been the first thought of many Midwives (& GPs) since we started our private ultrasound services in 1999. The thought that extra scans would find all kinds of extra problems that Midwives would have to deal with. Surely, not scanning people isn’t going to make a problem disappear, but ignorance can be bliss and it means that you can pass the buck and leave someone else to handle the problem when the baby is born. If finding a potential abnormality is a problem, then why offer routine screening at 20 weeks?
I think history speaks for itself and in the 12 years of “commercializing” ultrasound, Babybond has given thousands of women reassurance and peace of mind (which you can’t put a value on) and found less than 0.01% of late onset problems. We have handled the questions and concerns that otherwise would be unanswered or given to the overburdened Midwife. Since Babybond has an established clinical framework, we are not shy of dealing with known problems and have helped many parents come to terms with an abnormality by removing the fear of the unknown.
2) “If a woman is celebrating much more overtly than she might normally do regarding a pregnancy at an early stage and then, at a later stage, a serious problem emerges, a mother may need increased counselling after raising everyone’s expectations of her pregnancy at a ‘foetus party’, only to learn of complications later on.”
How totally bizarre for the leader of the RCM to criticise women for “celebrating much more overtly” her pregnancy.
I would invite Prof. Warwick to sit in on one of our clinics and she will see first hand the level of anxiety that parents have in the early part of their pregnancy. In any case, baby showers are traditionally a 3rd trimester event when surely women are allowed to celebrate and look forward to the birth of their “normal healthy” child.
3) “Another issue that worries me is that there is the whole issue of the consumer society and who is able to access this new facility of having a 4D scan? Does everyone have equal access to this celebratory technology or is it only something available to the better off and the rich and famous leading to more class envy, alienation and a sense of inequity?”
Yes Prof. Warwick, everyone has access to this “new” (or rather 8 year old) technology. When asked what our customer profile is there isn’t one. The Babybond service is open to and used by everyone regardless of their “social status” (and before we started, private ultrasound was very expensive). Our services have broad appeal because they are personal and sensitive and they mean different things to different people.
Surely even the leader of the RCM can accept “the right to choose” and women should have the right to choose without being criticised for their choices?
After 12 years of running a commercially successful private ultrasound service, I can tell Prof. Warwick that the success of the company is not because of “profit” but because we listen to our clients, re-invest and offer ultrasound scans that women want.
I appreciate that Prof. Warwick’s perspective is to look after the Midwifery profession first, however please do not insult the intelligence of the pregnant woman.






